Dogs are among the UK's most beloved companions, offering loyalty, companionship and countless joys. They encourage us to be active, teach us about responsibility, and provide unwavering friendship. However, owning a dog also requires a serious commitment. Understanding your true motivations before getting a dog is crucial for both your wellbeing and that of your new pet.
Sadly, many dogs are surrendered to shelters yearly because their owners were unprepared for the realities of dog ownership or lost interest quickly. Knowing the worst reasons for getting a dog can help prospective owners make responsible decisions that lead to lifelong happiness for all involved.
While dogs can naturally be protective and alert their owners to danger, acquiring one solely for guard duties is problematic. Dogs require thorough training, socialisation and ongoing care to be safe and well-adjusted. Using a dog as a deterrent or weapon is irresponsible and often illegal. Instead, think carefully about whether you seek genuine companionship or security, and explore other safety measures for your home.
Small ‘handbag dogs’ such as teacup Chihuahuas or Yorkshire Terriers might seem like cute accessories, but they are living beings needing training, exercise and care like any other dog. Carrying a dog purely as a style statement overlooks their needs and the time commitment required. If you love small breeds, ensure you are ready to invest in their wellbeing beyond appearances.
Children asking persistently for a dog can wear down any parent’s resolve. However, if you aren’t fully ready and willing to care for a dog long-term, giving in can lead to challenges. Dogs often live 10–15 years or more, so ensure the entire family is committed. Owning a dog should never be an impulse decision based mainly on children’s requests.
Returning home to an excited dog can be a great source of comfort. However, dogs should not be left alone for long periods regularly, nor should they be frequently kenneled or cared for by strangers due to travel. Dogs thrive on companionship and require daily interaction. If your current lifestyle means long hours away or frequent trips, it’s better to wait before bringing a dog into your life to ensure you can give the time and attention needed.
Having free time and funds now does not guarantee your ability to care for a dog in the future. Life changes such as new jobs, moves, relationships or children can impact your capacity to prioritise your dog. Dogs require daily care and financial resources throughout their lives, including vet bills, food, training and potential health issues as they age. Responsible ownership means being honest about these long-term commitments and planning accordingly.
In summary, getting a dog for the right reasons involves thoughtful consideration of your lifestyle, emotional readiness and finances. Avoid impulse decisions or motivations based on status, protection desires, or fleeting feelings. Instead, be prepared to offer the lifelong love and care a dog deserves. Doing so ensures rewarding companionship and helps prevent heartbreak for both you and your future pet.
When you are confident in your decision, seek your new dog thoughtfully from reputable breeders or consider adopting from a local rescue, giving a loving home to a dog in need.